Why happiness comes from outside and within.
Advantages Feeling positive, better outlook on life!
Disadvantages Sometimes it may be negative happiness such as vengeful happiness!
Happiness can either be internal or external according to the economist Richard Layard. Layard (2005) stated that ‘Happiness comes from outside and within’. So therefore, if a person is thinking positively on the inside most likely they will also be showing their positivity on the outside and also, if a person is content in their role in the family or work place such as a mother they are more likely to feel happier leading a more positive life with the outside factors such as family life, work life and community factors.
Secondly, Martin Seligman (Spoors et al, 2010, p. 54) is believed to be the psychologist who formed positive psychology. He carried out research by asking 577 people to think about and write down a time when they felt at their most happiest and then asked to reflect on their personal strengths during this period of time and told to review their findings once every day for seven days. Participants were also informed to note down three things that were successful on that day and to also include reasoning behind their strengths and personal experiences. Seligman found that the happiness levels “increased significantly” and also remained this way after 6 months had passed. This explains if we continue to think positively on the outside our optimism will increase and be a more pleasant outcome and if we try to identify reasons when we felt at our best and why then our positivity will rise. Often when we are giving praise we feel happier so if we did note down when we are at our best then just like praise it might make us feel happier.
Richard Layard (Spoors et al, 2010, p. 83) concluded that their are different factors that make us happy including a ‘Big Seven’ which is a list of factors that boosted feelings of happiness. Included were satisfying work, good health and personal freedom although number one on the list of seven was family and other close relationships. According to this research it seems that outside factors are also very important to our happiness and although a person may feel happy on the inside they may not have outside factors such as satisfying work and close relationships which might have an effect on the level of happiness they are feeling. If we achieve these factors in our personal lives then it would mean that we would lead a happier life. On the other side, a person may be thinking negatively and family and other close relationships with people may make them feel happier and fulfilled. Although, generally if a person feels satisfied in their employment they are more likely to feel they are making an impact and this will boost their confidence and happiness and this shows that outside factors such as good family support and other relationships, health which is an inside factor affecting our happiness can also play an important role on happiness.
There are many inside and outside factors to our happiness levels and according to the above research these may include generally being optimistic, family, social and also making an effort to understand and record episodes of happiness and learn from these. We may have happiness from inside factors such as feeling happy inside with it being in our nature to be positive and cheerful or outside factors such as a good family support network and members of the family doing their best to support each other and ensuring everyone is cared for. Both the inside and outside factors are added as a combination to our happiness levels and when these are met we may feel a happier person.
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brittle1906 25/02/2011 23:51
catsholiday 25/02/2011 11:22
I echo RICHARDA;s comment - welcome indeed.
RICHADA 24/02/2011 16:40
Hello and a very warm welcome to Ciao. What a fascinating subject to publish as a first review. R.
pinky50 24/02/2011 10:37
Welcome (belatedly on my part) to Ciao. A good first review, but I hope you won't take it amiss if I suggest that would suit this site better if it were a little less academic in style. More of your own opinion and fewer references to those of others would make it a livelier and more engaging read.