... The small quirks that used to annoy you, you wish to irradiate in future relationships and in the end you end up looking for Mr Right/
Is there such a thing as Mr Right?
Personally I do not believe that anyone can be Mr Right well not from any list that you may gather in your mind. ... Read review
Advantages: Its about me Disadvantages: Its about me
...that being on their own is unbearable and that they cannot live alone.
As there are so many aspects that a person can discuss on this topic, I will concentrate on only one myself. Well we all like to talk about ourselves don't we and besides this is based on my opinion so how best to describe my thoughts other than through my life itself.
So lets ask me some questions: -
What is my relationship status ... ...Mr Right/
Is there such a thing as Mr Right?
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Personally I do not believe that anyone can be Mr Right well not from any list that you may gather in your mind. When you fall in love you just fall warts and all.
So why am I single?
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The serious answer is because I chose to be. I know not everyone is fortunate to choose where there relationships ... more
The single life can sometimes be referred to the simple life, but to be honest I am not too sure.
There are many pro's and con's to being single, but to be honest I think it depends mainly on the individual.
Many people can survive throughout life with just passing flings or the odd romance, while others choose to remain virgins until the day they die then on the other hand there are those who find love and feel that being on their own is unbearable and that they cannot live alone.
As there are so many aspects that a person can discuss on this topic, I will concentrate on only one myself. Well we all like to talk about ourselves don't we and besides this is based on my opinion so how best to describe my thoughts other than through my life itself.
So lets ask me some questions: -
What is my relationship status at present? ______________________________
Single after just coming out of a 5 month relationship.
Who's choice was it to separate? ________________________
It was mine as I felt it just simply wasn't working. I am not one for full on gestures and people pining at my feet. I like a challenge and something where I do not feel Closter phobic and can live both together and as independants.
How many long term relationships have you had and for how long? _____________________________________________
I have three in total, one for two years, another for three and the last one for a year.
Have I ever been in love? ___________________
Yes I have and yes my heart has been broken.
Knowing those questions, we can see that I am capable of long term relationships.
So why do I find it hard to develop these with others later in life? ______________________________________________
People change through their lives and every experience makes people wiser and makes them understand what they are looking for in life. The small quirks that used to annoy you, you wish to irradiate in future relationships and in the end you end up looking for Mr Right/
Is there such a thing as Mr Right? ________________________
Personally I do not believe that anyone can be Mr Right well not from any list that you may gather in your mind. When you fall in love you just fall warts and all.
So why am I single? ______________
The serious answer is because I chose to be. I know not everyone is fortunate to choose where there relationships take them; many people are hurt along the way. But for now I have a choice and I will use my judgment in how I feel.
So why do I at this present time choose to be single, well lets whey up those pro's and con's some based on what I have already written. So con's first .....
Con's __
* No Sharing - no share special moments to share
*No Support - There is someone to support you through good times and bad
*No Love - there is no greater feeling than that of being loved and loved in return
*No physical sex, well you knew it would focus somewhere in a review from me. Yes as long as you have the right partner who is happy to experiment and try things with you and is equally giving as receiving then sex can be fantastic
*Lonely nights crying yourself to sleep, hoping someone may text
*|No security when a mans arm cuddles over me
*No tickling of my back and nape of my neck
* No Romance
Pro's ___
* You get space to be an individual and independent and make you r own choices without having to consult others
*No awkward times where you fell that you have to do things to please the other person or having to solve arguments that where over nothing in the first place.
*Not having to explain your every move, every phone call, text or email from a male.
*Space to have fun
*None of the bruises (lets keep that one light)
*you get to pleasure yourself when every the mood takes you and you know what you want, whereas it may take a partner years or worse still they may not like the same things you do
*No petty arguments over trivial matters
Overall _____
There are so may arguments to be had over whether it is best to be single or not.
The truth is I dont think anyone knows what they want, as when they get what they want they only want something else.
I personally am not ready to jump into a relationship with Mr Right now, nor am I looking fro Mr Right as such pretence does not exist.
One day when I am not looking someone will fall for me and vice versa and there will be no question over whether I want or do not want to be single it will just be right.
Advantages: Your life is your own and you are answerable to nobody Disadvantages: Loneliness
...am experiencing what love actually is and the feelings I had before were not the same.
Don't get me wrong I have had a few flings and short relationships but only two that really count my very first relationship with Ian and now the one I am in. So here I go with both the Pro's and Con's that I have experienced to being single.
*~*~*~*~The Pro's*~*~*~*~
Your Money is your own, what you earn you can spend you do without having to explain to anyone ... ...you already have.
There is no moaning, when you are in a relationship the tiniest thing can bug you with your partner, when you are single you don't get this and you can slob around watching chick flicks safe in the knowledge that you will be watching it in peace.
You can watch what you want on tv, football is not even mentioned as you do not have to have the arguement each time a game is screened on tv and no arguements about the fact sky is a ...
KELLYLOUJ 17.06.2006
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Advantages: I now have a life Disadvantages: Few and mainly Irrelevant
...which I have to say is a great confidence booster and something I told myself constantly for the first week afterwards. I have to say I know it sound's cheesy but it has definitely worked now I know I can do better a lot lot better.)
Now as I am 31 at first the prospect of single seemed quite daunting, you know what it's like when you've been in a relationship for a long time. On the odd occasion you do go out with the girls, you usually end up ... ...I thought I would do is go through all of the pro's and con's I can think of about being single. I will mention the con's first as I don't wish to depress myself for too long.
Con's of Being Single
1. When you live alone you have to pay more for your share of the council tax.
2. Some of your friends look at you very sympathetically despite the fact you're in a fantastic mood.
3. You don't get sex when you want it - but to be perfectly honest ...
traceychurchill76 30.08.2007
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Advantages: Time with the girls, can wear & look how you want! Disadvantages: No one to hug, cuddle and kiss!
...wear matching underwear as nobody is going to see it! And can wear those big comfy pants every girl secretly loves to wear.
Don't have to worry about waking up with out make-up as no one is going to see you until you have re-applied.
Can go out with the girls and flirt with as many men as possible and not feel guilty.
Leave clothes and stuff everywhere as no one is coming in your room.
Watch all the girly films you want without having to compromise.
... ...bits and if your make-up is done and have you shaved.
Sharing a duvet and bed with someone else.
Going out with other couples! Having to check with someone before you make plans.
Pros of being part of a double act:
Someone to bring to parties, weddings and reunions.
Someone to hold your hand and give you a hug.
Not always being asked 'Have you got a boyfriend yet?'
Someone to make plans with.
Some one to go on romantic trips with.
In my ...
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Advantages: You can fart in bed Disadvantages: He farts in bed instead!
...natural position (for me this is usually star shape, face down in the centre of the bed). You can read papers and magazine until whenever you want and generally faff about. You can sleep in your fleecy pyjamas without worrying how sexless you look, or go naked in the summer heat without the expectation that men usually have (naked skin means sex - not all the time matey!!)
Cons
Those nights when the weather is stormy, don't we just need a strong ... ...to someone in the morning is great as well, maybe this is all honeymoon period-ish, but hey it's all good!
The winner - RELATIONSHIP
2. Grooming
Pros
We have those days, sod the shaving, and bugger the hair washing, two fingers up to the chipped nail polish! Sometimes I want to slob, I want to wear my crappy grey knickers that are really comfy and that t-shirt with a bleach stain down the front is comfort -why change? Now if I had a boyfriend, ...
Mens 10.08.2005
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...the exact opposite and there is no one and only solution to this question. It depends on what kind of people we are and what do we expect from life. I believe people were "made" to live in a society, where a family is the smallest and primary social group. Living in a pair also seems natural for the human kind somehow, even if some cultures tend to practice polygamy or living in communities ignoring which family you belong to. Myself, I consider ... ...being on their own, which is okay. Being single:
+ you can do what you want when you want without a "permission"
+ you don't need to worry yourself with the trouble of somebody else
+ money you make is just yours
+ it's your decision how to raise your dog
+ you don't need to worry someone will betray or disappoint you
+ you know that what you do for yourself is well-done
- your life lacks rules, you do whatever you want
- living alone is ...
jeaniecz 22.06.2008 (19.02.2008)
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