Member Advice on Break-ups

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Desperately need help!!!

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1 Mar 1st, 2006 

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crackpotjen

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Hiya right where do i begin???

I've been with my fella for 2 years now. We met on the internet 4 years ago and became friends, swapped numbers etc. Anyway we met up fell in love you know the rest.....

Since last july things have been going downhill. I found he'd been texting girls on his phone from the internet and when i confronted him he said they were just mates that he'd known for years. This i didn't beleive and it's caused so many problems. The text messages are sexual and things he doesn't even say to me. I know this sounds all pathetic but i thought when you were in love and in a commited relationship well you don't do this, that you should be happy with just your spouce. I allow him to talk to girls he knows etc, i don't care cause i know he's not sleeping with them, but this has really hurt me.

Anyway, since then we row over the slighest thing. I've had to cry myself to sleep cause it feels as though i mean nothing to him. He's even been texting his ex saying that he loves her, but he says that she's engaged.......this i don't beleive. We've split up for 3 weeks now, i've not seen him but we speak on the phone daily......it's hard to break out of that routine after 4 years of daily contact.

I had a miscarriage last january and he said that i was lieing and he offered no support. I don't think i love him anymore either. I want to get over him, i want to be able to start new year relationships but it feels like i'm cheating on him even talking to other blokes and discussing sex etc.

Anyway i last saw him about a month ago but we're still sleeping together. The thing is though i'm late on my period and beleive i'm pregnant. I've been pregnant twice before, but lost them both, and i know the feeling. I know i need to get a test, i can't afford it though so waiting until i come into money (my doctors charge £5....i don't even have that!!!) I'm worried because i don't think i love him anymore and i don't want to be with him........but if i'm pregnant then i can't abort it. I don't know what to do it's stressing me out so much i don't know what to do i cry myself to sleep every night. Can anyone help???? 

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conducteur 01.08.2006 16:20

There must be somewhere.

susancarter 06.04.2006 20:38

Surely you can get one for free. When I had to get admitted to hospital with a urine infection, they were obsessed with pregnancy tests. I think they did three!

sarah110 05.03.2006 02:45

I'm sorry for the rating. There is one thing I was told when things got on top - You will only ever get thrown at you what you can cope with. Looking back at my own life I know that this is true, but my it does not feel it at the time. Good luck to you, you will be ok. Sarah x



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