...and feeding when it suits the mother and not the baby.
Control crying suggests that babies are not harmed by leaving them crying until they fall asleep. A lot of people don't like to do this because it makes them feel guilty but Gina Ford insists that it is good for children to learn to fall asleep this way. With control crying you put your baby to bed at the same time every day for a nap and you leave the baby until it has had a nap no matter how ... ...few minutes or- as was the case with me- 40 minutes! Eventually the baby learns to fall asleep after less time and gets used to it so it isn't as stressful!
Feeding when it suits the mother is basically just that. Gina Ford insists that babies need structure and so it's important for the mother to do the same structured feeding routine every day so that the baby knows when it's feed time and feels comfortable. I don't really see how a breast fed ...
ashlynb 12.08.2009
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Advantages: none Disadvantages: too disciplined and regimented.
...shoplifted (I'm sure it isn't the latter - not been in a book shop for a while! But my pregnancy brain is starting to get to me!)
I find some of the hints and tips in here to be good. We are still getting ready for our baby so it is all just ideas. I will update the review and let you know if we managed to put any into practice and whether they actually worked!
There are plans for helping your baby sleep through the night and feed when is convenient ... ...very early days, the baby is going to feel lost and scared and needs you to be there for them when they need it, rather than trying to train them into your pattern of living from the moment they are born.
The downside of the book for me is that it isn't presented as tips and hints that you can use if you want. It is a regimented regime that must be followed to the letter in order to work. This just isn't feasible. I have enough friends with children ...
elbar 19.08.2008
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Advantages: gives you a life to enjoy with a newborn Disadvantages: none for me
...wanted to share with people the huge value that this book gives. I can't begin to describe in words the immense gratitude I give to Gina Ford for her knowledge, experience and advice she gives in this book. I have two children and have used it in the explicit sense with my first child and more loosely with my second and both times I have had very 'contented' babies. The contents of the books chapters cover the following topics:
1) Preparation for ... ...Feeding in the first year (milk production, expressing, breast and bottle feeding)
4) Understanding your baby's sleep (sleep and demand feeding, early-morning waking etc)
5) Common problems in the first few months (e.g. burping, colic, dummies etc)
6) Establishing a routine
7) Routines for the first year
8) Introducing solid food (weaning, first, second and third stages with feeding plans for each month from 4 to 12 months)
Her advice may to ...
beth99 09.10.2008
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Advantages: Good advice, helped me enjoy my baby Disadvantages: Rather strict sounding, but you don't have to follow it to the letter
...experience:
Firstly, I'd stress the point that this book isn't for everyone, but I would like to say that it saved my sanity. On having a baby I tried to take the relaxed approach, feeding on demand and basically letting my baby do whatever he seeemed to want. However, by the time he was 4 months he was feeding every hour in the night and most of the day too. I gave Gina's advice a try and for me it worked. By sorting out my baby's sleeping and ... ...noticed a marked improvement in the day time almost immediately, and by 4 weeks of following the routine, my baby was sleeping through the night. I have read other reviews, where people say the routines are cruel etc. At no point does Gina tell you to leave your baby to cry, in fact she stresses that a baby should NOT be left crying for more than 10 minutes without being checked on. Others say that having a routine is restricitve, but for me I found ...
jdp102 04.01.2009
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Advantages: Helped my baby sleep through night at 8 weeks Disadvantages: Very regimented if you follow it to the letter
...but has been sleeping through the night from 11pm to around 7am since he was eight weeks old. He is very happy, rarely cries and generally settles well for naps etc. I am aware that the book is very regimented e.g. baby must be awake and feeding by ... but I simply used the book as a guide and applied some common sense and a little juggling and I have to say the routin works fantastically for me. I have also just returned to work with my husband ... ...you follow this book to the letter, you are going to find life very restricted. I think you simply need to apply a little common sense to make this book work for you, provided you are happy having a routine. It also provides a lot of answers to questions that a lot of parents probably have first time round e.g about how to settle your baby to sleep. ...
ttofee 18.02.2009
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Advantages: Advice from an experienced maternity nurse Disadvantages: Controversial opinions
This book will divide the reader. You'll either love it or hate it. Personally I agreed with some of Gina's points but others which I definitely did not.
I'm currently 8 months pregnant and have read all manner of baby books but this was by far the most interesting. As someone with mild OCD, the thought of having my newborn in a routine by 4 weeks sounds brilliant however I'm sure in reality it will prove hard!!! I disagreed with certain aspects ... ...only when its appropriate for the babies needs and not your own. But other ideas such as bathing and feeding the baby in their own room from birth was a very sound idea. I would recommend this book as in my opinion you can never do enough research on the subject but be prepared to find certain aspects of the book not to be of everyone's taste. ...
vstep 20.12.2008
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